Confession- I lost my outreach worker recently… I don’t know if I am falling apart cus I need help or failing will make people think I need help. I know how to do stuff I just can’t seem to do it alone.

*giant hug*

You’ve suffered a major loss in your life! It’s absolutely understandable that you’re having trouble. Not only is it understandable, it’s also ok and something that’s gonna suck, but you will get through it.

I know you didn’t ask but here’s a practical suggestion that has helped each get my needs heard in times like this. Make a list of things you’re struggling with as they come up. Don’t think about solutions quite yet, just jot down what’s challenging, maybe on your phone. Then take that list to whoever you’re working with and show them. It’ll help you know what’s hardest, and it’ll give them a concrete sense of your need.

You’re gonna get through this!

thotki:

its been my longstanding hc that loki always found kissing boring, gross, slightly unpleasant, and maybe even overly intimate (like even if he just gave a dude a blowjob and literally just had the guys cum in his mouth, if he pulls him to his feet and tries to kiss him and be affectionate with him loki is instantly annoyed and turned off and wants to shove him away.)

hed do it, but it was like. a necessary evil. hed rather not. hed just be like. thinking about potion ingredients in his head.

but the first time thor leaned in for a kiss loki was like. OH. and he felt like he couldnt get enough of it. he was desperate. it was embarrassing. it was like it was his first time. he was awkward. he didnt put any effort into his technique at all, he just wanted to be as close to his brothers mouth as possible. didnt wanna stop. probably cried and wasnt sure why. wasnt even aware until thor pointed it out